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Trading is an active style of participating in the financial markets that seeks to outperform traditional buy-and-hold investing. Rather than trying to profit from long-term uptrends in the markets, traders look for short-term price moves to profit in both rising and falling markets.As a trader, one of the most important things you can do to improve your chances of success is to approach trading as a business. A successful trading business requires a strategic plan that covers your actual business and your actual trading. Your business plan will include things like short and long-term goals, the amount of capital you have available for the business and how you will set up your office. Your trading plan includes the details of trading: what you will trade and how you will trade it. Your plan should be so objective and concise that you could hand it over to another trader and they would be able to execute it exactly.It’s important to understand that your trading plan is not simply a set of rules that you think will work, a list of set-ups that you are somehow fond of, or someone else’s plan. A good trading plan is one that you have researched, tested on historical data, tested in a live market and continue to evaluate at regular intervals.Successful trading involves more than reading a few articles or books, and you should plan on devoting a substantial amount of time and effort before ever placing a trade in a live market. This can be difficult because most new traders are anxious to get in the market. While the research and time commitments may sound daunting, they're a realistic and integral part of becoming a profitable, independent trader.This tutorial serves as an introduction to help you get started trading. For more information, be sure to check out part two of our series, which covers more advanced topics including charting, leverage, risk and strategy automation. Many people who become interested in trading are first introduced to the financial markets through investing.The purpose of investing is to build wealth slowly over time, and this is typically accomplished through a buy-and-hold approach: making investments – such as in a stock, ETF or mutual fund – and allowing price to fluctuate over time. Investors “ride out” the inevitable downtrends with the expectation that prices will eventually rebound and rise over the long-term.After years or decades, the investment will, in many cases, increase in value and provide positive returns for the investor. Long-term returns can be further amplified by compounding through the reinvestment of profits and dividends. Investments are often viewed as a means of building wealth to provide stability and income during the retirement years.While investments are typically held for a period of years or even decades, traders buy and sell stocks, commodities, currency pairs and various other investment vehicles with the intention of generating returns that outperform a buy-and-hold strategy. Trading profits are viewed as income since profits are “taken off the table” on a regular basis (as opposed to investing, where positions are generally left alone for the long haul).Trading profits are achieved through buying low and selling high – and selling high and buying (to cover) low, in the case of short selling – and all trades are entered and exited within a relatively short period of time. This time period can vary from a few seconds to months or even years, depending on the trader’s style. The following chart lists the four primary trading styles - position, swing, day and scalp – with the corresponding time frames and holding periods for each.
Trading is an active style of participating in the financial markets that seeks to outperform traditional buy-and-hold investing. Rather than trying to profit from long-term uptrends in the markets, traders look for short-term price moves to profit in both rising and falling markets.As a trader, one of the most important things you can do to improve your chances of success is to approach trading as a business. A successful trading business requires a strategic plan that covers your actual business and your actual trading. Your business plan will include things like short and long-term goals, the amount of capital you have available for the business and how you will set up your office. Your trading plan includes the details of trading: what you will trade and how you will trade it. Your plan should be so objective and concise that you could hand it over to another trader and they would be able to execute it exactly.It’s important to understand that your trading plan is not simply a set of rules that you think will work, a list of set-ups that you are somehow fond of, or someone else’s plan. A good trading plan is one that you have researched, tested on historical data, tested in a live market and continue to evaluate at regular intervals.Successful trading involves more than reading a few articles or books, and you should plan on devoting a substantial amount of time and effort before ever placing a trade in a live market. This can be difficult because most new traders are anxious to get in the market. While the research and time commitments may sound daunting, they're a realistic and integral part of becoming a profitable, independent trader.This tutorial serves as an introduction to help you get started trading. For more information, be sure to check out part two of our series, which covers more advanced topics including charting, leverage, risk and strategy automation. Many people who become interested in trading are first introduced to the financial markets through investing.The purpose of investing is to build wealth slowly over time, and this is typically accomplished through a buy-and-hold approach: making investments – such as in a stock, ETF or mutual fund – and allowing price to fluctuate over time. Investors “ride out” the inevitable downtrends with the expectation that prices will eventually rebound and rise over the long-term.After years or decades, the investment will, in many cases, increase in value and provide positive returns for the investor. Long-term returns can be further amplified by compounding through the reinvestment of profits and dividends. Investments are often viewed as a means of building wealth to provide stability and income during the retirement years.While investments are typically held for a period of years or even decades, traders buy and sell stocks, commodities, currency pairs and various other investment vehicles with the intention of generating returns that outperform a buy-and-hold strategy. Trading profits are viewed as income since profits are “taken off the table” on a regular basis (as opposed to investing, where positions are generally left alone for the long haul).Trading profits are achieved through buying low and selling high – and selling high and buying (to cover) low, in the case of short selling – and all trades are entered and exited within a relatively short period of time. This time period can vary from a few seconds to months or even years, depending on the trader’s style. The following chart lists the four primary trading styles - position, swing, day and scalp – with the corresponding time frames and holding periods for each.

Kerja siang malam, meski hartamu segunung

Itu tidak ada nilainya kalau jadi ayah belum melakukan hal hal ini…

Merugilah ketika orang tua hanya sibuk bekerja, namun jarang berinteraksi dengan anak-anaknya.

Berinteraksi dan bercanda dengan anak adalah masa-masa yang sangat menyenangkan bagi orang tua dan anak.

Setiap Canda yang terjadi maka semakin dekat pula jalinan antara orang tua dan anak.

Banyak penelitian yang dilakukan oleh pakar perenting tentang sejuta manfaat dari berinteraksi dan bercanda ini. 

Menurut mereka aktivitas bercanda akan mengatifkan sensori motorik, verbal, intusi, dan juga intelegensi anak.

Terutama bila interaksi menyenangkan ini di lakukan pada masa balita maka akan membantu mengembangkan keterampilan hidup sang anak.

Sebagaimana yang disampaikan oleh  peneliti Elena Hoicka, Ph.D. “Menghabiskan waktu melakukan hal ini  dengan anak-anak membantu mereka belajar bagaimana melakukannya sendiri dan memberi mereka satu set keterampilan yang penting dalam masa kanak-kanak dan seterusnya.”

Rasulullah SAW pun sering mencontohkan pada kita bagaimana bermain dan bercanda dengan anak.

Abu Hurairah Ra pernah menceritakan bagaimana Nabi Saw bermain dan bercanda dengan cucu beliau, Al-Hasan. “Rasulullah Saw pernah menjulurkan lidahnya bercanda dengan Al-Hasan bin Ali Ra. Iapun melihat merah lidah beliau, lalu ia segera menghambur menuju beliau dengan riang gembira”.

Anas bin Malik Ra menuturkan, bahwa beliau juga senang bercanda dengan Zainab. “Rasulullah sering bercanda dengan Zainab, putri Ummu Salamah Ra, beliau memanggilnya dengan: Ya Zuwainab, Ya Zuwainab, berulang kali”. Zuwainab artinya Zainab kecil.

Diriwayatkan oleh Abu Hurairah, “Mereka (anak-anak itu) berkata, “Ya Rasulullah, mengapa engkau bercanda dengan kami?” Kemudian Nabi Muhammad shalallahu ‘alaihi wassalam pun menjawab, “Ya, akan tetapi aku selalu berkata benar, walau dalam senda gurau.” (HR Ahmad)

Di antara candaan beliau adalah apa yang diriwayatkan oleh Anas bin Malik bahwa beliau memanggilnya dengan sebutan, “wahai orang yang berkuping dua.” (HR Abu Daud).

Seorang anak kecil bernama Abu Umair adalah anak Ummi Sulaim yang sering diajak bercanda oleh Nabi Muhammad shalallahu ‘alaihi wassalam. Pada suatu hari, terlihat wajah anak ini kelihatan murung. Rupanya dia sedang bersedih karena burung pipit peliharaannya mati. Kemudian Rasulullah pun menghampirinya dan mencoba untuk menghiburnya dengan berkata, “Hai Abu Umair, apa yang dilakukan burung pipitmu?” (Muttafaq ‘alaih)

Pada kesempatan lain, Rasulullah shalallahu ‘alaihi wassalam nampak asyik saat bercanda dengan anak-anak (kedua cucunya), sering kali Rasulullah digelantungi oleh mereka berdua.

Al-Barra berkata, “Aku melihat Rasulullah shallallahu alaihi wa sallam digelantungi Hasan, dan Beliau berkata, ‘Ya Allah, sesungguhnya aku mencintainya, maka cintailah ia.” (HR Bukhari, Muslim, dan Tirmidzi).

Al-Barra’ juga mengatakan, “Rasulullah shallallahu alaihi wa sallam memperhatikan Hasan dan Husain, lalu berkata, ‘Ya Allah, sesungguhnya aku mencintai keduanya, maka cintailah keduanya.”
(HR Tirmidzi) seperti dilansir dari thayyiba.com

Tahukah  anda, wahai orang tua bahwa bercanda itu memiliki sejuta manfaat bagi anak dan orang tua. Bagaimana bisa?

Beberapa Manfaat dari Bercanda/ bersenda gurau:

1. Merangsang naluri berkasih sayang anak.

Bercanda dan bermain adalah waktu paling dekat antara orang tua dengan anak.

Disinilah anak akan merasakan kasih sayang, perhatian dan juga cinta dari orang tua.

Banyaknya derai tawa yang tercipta semakin menumbuhkan rasa percaya anak pada orang tua, anak akan mengangap orang tua adalah teman bermain yang menyenangkan.

Mereka tidak akan kesepian bahkan akan menjadikan orang tua tempat bertanya segala hal karena tidak ada rasa takut, tentu rasa tidak takut ini bukan bearti tidak ada rasa hormat pada orang tua.

2. Merangsang naluri mempertahankan diri anak

ketika anak bermain dan bercanda dengan orang tua, sesungguhnya mereka tengah mengembangkan keberanian dan rasa percaya dirinya.

Setiap candaan dan godaan yang di berikan pada mereka akan menstimulus anak untuk memberikan respon.

Tentu respon yang mereka berikan dengan harapan akan setimpal sebagaimana yang dirasakannya. sehingga bila bermain  orang tua sebaiknya mengeluarkan beragam ekspresi yang total, tertawa, pura-pura sedih, pura-pura marah, takut, bahagia dll.

Sehingga anak pun belajar untuk mengidentifikasi setiap ekspresi yang muncul.

Disini  anak akan belajar strategi, menumbuhkan intusi dan daya inovatifnya. contoh jika sang ayah melemparkan bola dengan melambung dia akan mencoba dengan gaya yang sama atau mungkin dengan gaya modifikasi di pantulkan atau hanya di lempar vertikal.